27th Oct 2008

Its a public holiday today.. My whole family is at home.. I have no programmes so stay at home too.. The afternoon msn with my Fren A.. We chat and comfort each other.. Cos coincidentally she also broke up with her bf of 8 yrs last sat.. I think is fate.. We have sort of didnt contact much ever since my year 2 in SIM.. But she found me again..

Fren A has been with her bf of 8 yrs too..and they plan to ROM next year.. But on last sat, she saw him walking down the street with another woman.. Tt woman is a PRC who hook up on him after asking for directions on the street b4.. The moment I heard this.. I feel like crying for my Fren A.. Why does this happen to her too? Why she have to go through this too? She is such an angel..

What is that guy thinking? Where did his brain gone to? 8 yrs le.. He wants to leave then leave when another woman comes along.. He didnt even tell my fren until she saw them herself..It really pissed me off when I hear this.. Cos is just like what MR D did.. He too say that PRC understand him more than my fren.. Bullshit.. How much can she understand within such a short while? Maybe she did something or say something that is pleasing to him and touch his heart that moment.. "Understand him more".. Iam so tired of hearing this.. Is just an excuse.. When u want to be out of the game.. u can give so many excuses and push the blame to other for the break up.. Trying to reassure yourself that what you doing is right? Or want to make yourself feel better?

Why He and Mr D are the same kind of species.. Coward - cannot settle things properly, choose the easy way out only.. Selfish - only think for themselves, never think for the other.. Moral values - where r the moral values? cheating n 3rd party is not right.. Does the 8 years of r/s meant nothing to you? Where is the love, memories and promises? I know both of them will not see all these anymore..

Iam really sad to hear this from her.. I know how much does it hurt.. I went through hell.. My heart feels for her.. Why she have to go through this too..


28th Oct 2008

I met Bestie D for movie in the afternoon.. She wanted to watch Love Exposure.. Seems interesting so I went with her.. Anyway I have the 1 for 1..



The movie is about affairs and betrayal.. There are 2 beautiful best friends. 1 is single but has an affair with a handsome married co-worker, the other is married to a average joe but the husband has an affair with his co-worker too.. The single woman thought is alright to have an affair since she dont have much feeling for him, wanting a companion during lonely nights.. but guilt seems to creep in when she met the guy's wife and her superior blame her for intruding the guy's r/s.. The married woman at first take the situation lightly as she thought her husband is popular so alot of gals will attract to him and seduce him.. but the truth is otherwise.. the gal tell her is the husband who went after her.. this really upset her and she went for divorce.. She is so upset that she had a argument with the best friend.. She tell her what she's doing is wrong and deem her as home-wrecker.. "Do you think the guy will divorce his wife for you?" "Get a life".. After the divorce, we see how the once rich tai tai trying to get a life and look for a job(is quite funny), but in her heart she still love and miss her husband.. Though the husband is not good looking, got pot belly, but he treats her well and showers her with love.. The ending is as predicted, the married couple is back together and have a child.. while the single woman left the affair and get on with her life..

My conclusion is.. never be the 3rd party.. put yourself in the gf/wife shoes.. if you are them, do you want this happen to you? Never do something to others which you dont want it to happen to yourself too.. For me.. no matter how much I like the guy, if I know he is attached.. I will reject him.. This thinking is even stronger after what I have went through..

After the movie, we went to Coffee Club to eat and chat.. I had the shepherd's pie(1st pic).. Bestie D has the bake rice(2nd pic).. The shepherd's pie is darn filling.. worth the price..







After dinner, we went walk walk awhile to digest the food.. cos Iam meeting Bestie S n Bestie F later at Cityhall last time b4 Bestie F goes back to LA.. We went to eat at Asian Kitchen.. Iam still full from last meal, so i just order the xiao long bao to share with them.. We talk and eat.. Then we head to Gelare for dessert.. Yea half price waffle day.. But even half price le I find it exp.. Who will eat it paying full price then? We talk alot.. then we realised wow time really fly.. we have known each other for 10 years le.. So old liao sad.. We then said we should have this anniversary thing for our friendship.. the next 10 years.. we might have kids tugging along.. we never knew what happen 10 years later.. I might not even be around, they both say choi dun say like this.. Haha but life is like this, thats why we treasure things ah..

Here are some photos.. Darn my red eye n swollen too.. Dunno y like this..